What do you think of a husband who is more involved with his parents, relatives, etc. than his wife and child?

I love my husband&have been married for 6 yrs w/1 child.We met and fell in love in our later teens and were married at 20 with a baby on way.My husbands parents & sis r smothering & controlling.They put me through hell & r relationship2. We agreed b4 marrying that we would keep r distance from them.When r child was a baby my husband was w/his parents more than w/us"working"off his premarital debt to them. After we were married for 2 yrs w/out my agreeance my husband started a company w/his Dad.My husband now owes more money to his Dad, talked me into buying a house right by them and the rest of his smothering family.When hes not working w/his Dad he is still w/him.They r ALL always calling suffocating.Now there r his cousins & friends 2.Now he chooses them to spend his time with, is there for all of them b4 us. We usually come after all of them and r lucky to get squeezed in.Dont feel he has ever really belonged to me.He says he loves us &he provides 4 us.He is "sick" & crabby alot2. ?